I’m Worried For My Daughter And My Wife Doesn’t Seem To Think There’s A Problem?

she’s 16 years old and looks older for her age. Example, her face structure is not babyish like most 16 year old girls are, she is thin and 5′9. She models and looks very feminine and doesn’t look like a teenager (she’s looks like she’s in her early 20’s) so naturally, older men are attracted to her…as scary as that is I have been starting to notice creepy things… here are some pics from her photobucket account (i know this is wrong…but this is a serious situation and i need advice)
http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e6/mariocautious/WH_fat_girls1.jpg
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f81/cnkadish555/cnkadish/ugly-girls-3.jpg
http://i216.photobucket.com/albums/cc174/GEEKSQUQDER/JASMINE004.jpg
http://i727.photobucket.com/albums/ww273/MelindaFreakinMartinez/Hmm3097-1.jpg
when she goes out (she hangs out with older people, in elite nighclubs/lounges/restaurants) she says she’s staying over at a friend’s house constantly and recently I decided to check up and call her friend’s home and the girl’s parents said they knew nothing about that.
I’ve started to notice she started wearing brand name handbags, high end clothing (we don’t have the money for that kind of luxury) and she said they were just gifts from the modeling she does….(my seems to believe that ) she gets picked up my luxurious cars (we live in ny) and she says it’s the company’s driver where she models when I have not heard any other girls getting picked up by this anonymous “driver”
She seems to look very polished for a 16 year old and has extra money to put in the effort to look glamorous all the time (I give her money…but just 15 dollars a day! she gets paid for modeling…but not THAT much for this posh treatment she gets herself…example, tanning, manicure, pedicure, getting hair done, buys lots of high end beauty products I haven’t even heard of)
she comes home with flowers approximately every other day and says they are just gifts from the photoshoots which makes absolutely no sense. Last weekand she had to model fo a client in LA and took a PRIVATE PLANE! (she said it was arranged my her agent…which is BULL) I have tried calling her modeling place to figure what is going on but I have a feeling somebody higher up is covering her butt. I am angry, frusterated and am afraid my is becoming somebody I didn’t raise her to be. We got into a confrontation yesterday she went off crying and the didn’t get resolved. Am i overreacting? do I have a right to be concerned? mothers, please give me your insight…does this fishy?! I don’t know what else to do
(I tried having some family time…just my , my daugher and I (I called in a babysitter for our 2 year old boy) and we went to the movies, retaurant and she seemed to be all in her phone messaging, having people call her..in the restaurant, all these older women and men were coming up to her asking her “how’s life” and totally ignoring us. I feel like i’m losing my girl…she claims she’s still a virgin which i highly doubt

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5 Comments

  1. Mom, wife, and cancer survivor.

    Don’t give him too much credit. He copy/pasted someones question and put in different (supposedly semi humorous to some?) links. Not that creative of a troll.

  2. WHY have you allowed her to go on a modeling job without the supervision of a parent? I would GROUND her now for three months. No where except school and NO MORE modeling jobs unless mom or dad are present THE ENTIRE TIME.

  3. Live and Learn

    really?!?!?!?! Because less than an hour ago you had a 17 year old son and a 14 year old daughter!
    TROLL!!!

  4. Really though? You seriously have no life to type ALL that BS for a stupid joke. Why put those fake links up and then type that whole thing??? This is stupidity at its best. You write that little paragraph, then you list stupid pictures, then you write a whole novel when no one is gonna read it anyway ’cause they already see that it’s fake. You’re cool dude.

  5. Are any of these pics actually of your daughter, or just of her making fun of people?
    I am a mom of 2 daughters, and I believe you are correct in your suspicions. I think there is a problem here and your wife should wake up and smell the coffee(I do not mean any disrespect). This definitely does not seem right that she is getting flowers all the time and designer handbags, mani’s and pedi’s. She’s too young for all of that. I hate to say it but I think you should put and end to this “modeling career” until she is old enough to make good judgement calls on her own. You are her dad and either you and her mom need to see eye to eye on this or it will cause problems for your relationship with both of them. Have either of you sat down and met with this “modeling agency?” There are a lot of fishy places out there that prey on children so just be extremely careful if you continue to let her do this, and if you do, you or her mom should be present at EACH and EVERY photoshoot. I hope I helped a little…

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